"Grab the opportunity" they said.

Assalamualaikum.

"Grab the opportunity. It may only come once in a lifetime."

I agree with that. We need to take the opportunity that we get to satisfy ourselves. Because in the future, we may not have the chance to get it again.

But sometimes, we need to let it go and think what's the best for us and others. Maybe we have other important responsibilities that we should do. That doesnt mean that you have to let go all of the opportunities in front of you. Only sometimes, because maybe we are too excited to take that opportunity without thinking about what are the consequences that follow. Pause for awhile. Ask our parents for some of their advices. Ask opinions from the people that have more experiences than us such as our brothers, sisters, and our seniors maybe.

Mungkin kita sangkakan apa yg kita nak atau suke tu, terbaik utk kita. Tetapi pada hakikatnya, ia bukan yg terbaik utk kita. Mungkin juga kita sangkakan apa yg kita xnak atau xsuke, buruk utk kita. Tetapi pada hakikatnya, ia terbaik utk kita. Teruskan berdoa . Semestinya Tuhan akan berikan yg terbaik utk kita.

Lets change our mentality from now on. We need to be confident that God knows best. Eventhough the opportunity may not come again in the future, dont be sad or depressed. Patience, young man (and woman :p). There must be something better for you that you dont know. If it seems like nothing good happens , He wants to test your faith and insyaAllah He will reward you if you are patient.

*foot note :
Kpd lepasan spm 2014 khususnya, maybe ramai yg dh dpt offer biasiswa smua. So, kalau parents dh bg green light, I think you bttr take it. If chosen to get the scholarship, dont waste it. Study hard and strive for the best.
All the best 97s ! ^^v